FAQ

AskWingman is a mobile app where guys post dating and relationship questions and get honest, anonymous feedback from other users. Every post is ephemeral: it disappears 24 hours after you create it, along with all its comments and votes.

No. AskWingman does not match you with anyone and has no swiping. It is a social feedback community, listed under Social Networking, not Dating. You come here for advice on the dating you are already doing elsewhere.

You post under a pseudonymous handle, auto-generated if you want. You can browse and post as a guest without giving personal details. The point is to ask the question you would never put in your group chat.

Ephemeral posts keep the feed honest and low-stakes. Nothing follows you around, nothing gets screenshotted into a permanent record, and people give franker advice when it is not carved in stone. After 24 hours the post, its comments, and its votes are permanently deleted.

Anything dating-adjacent: opening lines, texting threads, first-date plans, profile and photo reviews, relationship questions, style and grooming, or an honest read on how you come across. Posts are sorted into categories like Approaching, Texting, First Date, Profile Review, Relationship, Rate Me, Style, and General.

AskWingman is free to download and use. It is supported by non-personalized ads, which are not targeted using your personal data.

AskWingman is strictly for adults 18 and older. Date of birth is verified at sign-up, and the community has zero tolerance for content involving minors.

Give the crew something to work with: a clear question, the actual screenshot or photo, and the context. The more specific the post, the sharper the replies. Upvotes surface the advice the community trusts most.